Ahhh, thanks. It sounded like Lopez suddenly turning into a Spanish man that women fall for and men avoid so as to not look homosexual. Also, I apologise for misspelling. And I didn't misspell apologise.
It's very possible Tobar, Catherine, and Dutch Miller are all with each other. They all seem like they'd be pretty kinky to me. He's their live-in butler who performs all of his duties shirtless and in short shorts like Hank Azaria did in The Birdcage.
There's a movie in theaters now called "Borat: Cultural Learnings of America for Benefit Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan." It's about a funny foreign dude named Borat. Why do I bring this up? His name is an anagram of Tobar. I dunno, I just thought that was funny.