Tis true!Yes, someone smarter than I am gave me this advice; 'If you are unhappy in your life, start changing things back to when you last were happy' And being active on here is one of the things. No more women controlling this dude...if the next one doesnt like what i am into, then she gets shown the door. I am who I am and thats all there is to it. Also, no more getting used like the last time...