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A long time agoSome light listening while you read this

I don’t know how I could ever express in words just how much emotion has gone into the past 5 years of my life. Have you ever been asked the question in a job interview, “Where do you see yourself in 5 or 10 years?” How do you answer that in any meaningful way to some stuffed shirt behind a desk? Instead of considering what might be, let’s consider what was.

5 Years ago today I devoted my life to an incredible women. We bought a house and enjoyed living our lives the way that we wanted to. After 2 years of marriage we made the second biggest decision in our lives, we decided to become parents. We welcomed David into the world with excitement, pride, fear, joy and so much more. Watching him grow day by day has been an incredible experience; as I’m sure those of you with kids know very well. It has its ups and downs, but at the end of the day it’s always worth it.

When David was 2 we made the decision again to expand our family. My wife really wanted a little girl. She was fine with having another boy, but I guess most parents are like that, fathers want a little boy and mothers want a little girl. The date for the ultrasound came and we found out that we were having another little boy. We decided to name him R.J. (Raymond James). Named after myself and her Grandfather, who passed away this year. R.J. is due in about 2 months time and it is really starting to get exciting for us.

Where do I see myself in the next 5 years? I don’t know, but I’m going to enjoy every damn minute of it.

Happy Anniversary Crystal!
10 months ago  |  Comments (12)  |  + 24 Cool
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Dalton
I feel that the song choice was very appropriate, and congratulations!
#1  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
Nick
Congratulations, Ray!
#2  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
evilcrash9 BatBoner
Why is it raining on my face as I read this?
#3  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Funny
Masshalogear SnapBack
Congrats Ray
#4  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 2 Cool
Queen_MAB
Congratulations, and where is the +100 Sweet button?
#5  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 2 Funny
Conklin
Congrats Ray
#6  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
KistyNocturn Gamer Cat
Congratulations, we need an Congrats button
#7  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Funny
Atilaa
My mom wanted a girl, but all she got was three boys :D.
And nice of you not to name your kid Junior, James is much better ;)

Likewhat everyone else said, congrats!

Btw, 5 years ago, I was 11.5 years old ;).
#8  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Funny
st0rmchaser
You sentimental old thing :P congratulations though :) i'll speak to you later
#9  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
Albin0_Rhino Squiggle
Congratulations my friend. To you and your family. May they only see good health and happiness. Do me a favor and love them no matter what.
#10  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
fabledgriff
man i almost shed a tear
#11  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
Cunning_Rook
Congrats
#12  Posted 10 months ago  |  + 1 Cool
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