On 6-22 I will be single againAnd this time, I am not the least bit upset.. Tonight was pretty much the deciding factor.. I talked to a friend of mine who I know will shoot straight with me, and she basically called it the first time they met. Misa asked me if she was the baby of her family, to which I responded no. That shocked Misa, as she was 100% convinced that my soon to be ex was the youngest by her actions of needing to be the center of attention..
In normal relationships if you fail to call someone, they usually wait till the next day. However at 11:30, as I was ready to initally try to sleep (fat load of good it's done me now), she decided to call call because i had not called her. Besides the fact that I to...
On 6-22 I will be single againAnd this time, I am not the least bit upset.. Tonight was pretty much the deciding factor.. I talked to a friend of mine who I know will shoot straight with me, and she basically called it the first time they met. Misa asked me if she was the baby of her family, to which I responded no. That shocked Misa, as she was 100% convinced that my soon to be ex was the youngest by her actions of needing to be the center of attention..
In normal relationships if you fail to call someone, they usually wait till the next day. However at 11:30, as I was ready to initally try to sleep (fat load of good it's done me now), she decided to call call because i had not called her. Besides the fact that I told her I was going to busy most of the day. Somehow we got on the topic of shopping, and the ways that she varies from most people I know,
For her shopping at one store is a 2 to three hour ordeal, unless it's wlamart then she does like most people and get in get out.. however when she is at a clothing store, shoe store, or used book store, she takes forever. I know, you're thinking so what? Well, then after the time she shops, she must take no less than 10 minutes to short through her basket and then put things back that she decided to not get... I mean, it must be nice to have 2 - 3 hours just to spend in 1 fucking store.
One thing I must guess at is that my soon to be ex doesn't have anyone else that will (or feels forced) to listen to her recount in detail everything that is on her mind. Maybe they have learned to not listen like I, her exs, and her guys in the future will learn. I'd wish that she was able to learn and change some things, but like she told me about her shopping ways, "We are just too old and set in our ways." Bull SHIT! I am 36, she turned 35 recently. I adapt to whatever I need to and change the ways I do stuff. She is too OCD. If plans change, she's a fucking mess.
Soon she will need to be someone else's problem. I just dread her pestering my friends, and her family trying to cause drama on dramabook, I mean facebook.. At least I have here where I can vent, and not worry about what some assholes who know me in town would day.